Dreams Visions Goals Notebook from In A Nutshell
Hello, dear friends! Last time I visited Handmade Success, I asked: What will you create for 2013? The first quarter of the year is coming to a close, so I thought it would be a great time to review and renew your goals.
Soft Goal-Setting
If you’re anything like me, you’re starting the year with (1.) a list of intentions, (2.) a list of goals you’d like to accomplish, and (3.) an energetic inner-restlessness so powerful, it’s practically palpable to the people around you. (I did not put all those P’s there on purpose .)
I ask you to begin your 8-week review of the year by softening your goals. Your vision should always make you feel good (rather than anxiety-ridden). In the book, Psycho-Cybernetics, A New Way to Get More Living Out of Life, Maxwell Maltz offers this advice:
“You should use the same technique in all your affairs that Jackie Burke recommends in putting. That is, not to feel that you have to pinpoint the ball right to the cup itself on a long putt, but to aim at an area the size of a washtub. This takes off the strain, relaxes you, enables you to perform better. If it’s good enough for the professionals, it should be good enough for you.”
Furthermore, in the book, The Success Principles: How to Get from Where You Are to Where You Want to Be, Jack Canfield told about the year he wanted to earn $100,000 (up from his current salary of $18,000). He did what positive thinkers do: he made signs affirming his new and abundant salary, he worked all year-through consciously and subconsciously creating more income for himself, and by the end of the year he had earned more than $90,000. Others told him that he hadn’t actually achieved his goal, but he says, “I wasn’t disappointed!”
The point is not to cross every single goal off the list. What matters is that you’re setting the bar higher, and stretching yourself daily. That’s the only way to grow and work toward your dreams.
What are your intentions for the rest of the year?
After interviewing Leonie Dawson, I had a gorgeous A-HA moment. I asked her for tips about resolving unfinished business, and she gave advice that I so desperately needed to hear. She explained the “energy cycles of projects,” and how a brand new idea is easy, but the middle (the 40-80% mark) takes effort. It’s natural to feel sluggish as everything becomes a bit harder.
I’m in love with that realization because it makes total sense.
I’m also quite frustrated by the same revelation because it reminds me of my creative business, and unlike a project, I have no idea how close I am to birthing a full-fledged career. It feels very similar to giving birth to my children, and I’m metaphorically at the point of exhaustion where I push with every ounce of my energy, and then relax, rest my head, and doze off before the next contraction. When I feel the urge, I wake up and push, push, push again.
The only difference is, I don’t have a doctor to come in the room and say, “You’re almost there. Just a few more pushes to go, and you’ll be discovered, retained, contracted, and rewarded.” I have no way to tell if I’m 60% away from a the creative career of my dreams or if it’s within my reach. There are many things that are out of my control.
Uncertainty is a huge challenge to any creative business owner. That makes it very difficult to stay focused and keep your eye on the prize! So instead, I want to ask that you keep your goals within your control. Avoid resolutions that rely on unknown factors, such as: “I will make 1,000 sales this year.”
Instead, stick with goals that you can control and measure:
- I will create 15 new designs
- I will run 8 marketing promotions this year
- I will spend $250 on finding new customers through Facebook advertising
Ask: What am I going to stop doing this year?
For example: By the end of this year, I will stop the frenzied hustling. I’m going to convert that frantic energy into a more productive shuffling.
My gorgeous children shuffle all over the house, it’s a dance they all do to the song, “Party Rock Anthem” and it looks just like the old-school “running man” move. They shuffle to the dinner table, they shuffle to their chores, and they shuffle their way out the door to school.
To me, shuffling sounds like a great alternative to hustling. It’s still energetic, but it’s more joyful in nature. My hustling has gotten way too serious and anxious, and if I leave it go unchecked, it could suffocate the creativity out of my creative business.
What will you stop doing this year, and how can you convert the extra time or energy into something more productive?
Keep up the good work, and I’ll meet you back here again soon! Until then and all the best~
Lisa Jacobs — Marketing Creativity
Lisa Jacobs writes Marketing Creativity for fellow creative spirits who aim to build a career with their own two hands. She leads group webinar programs and offers one-on-one coaching designed to help you get paid to be … you.







Great read, seriously!
I need to get my butt in gear..;o)
Judi
Love this! Thanks. I’m just now doing my goals for the year, so feeling like I missed out on two months and have to fit it all into 10! So I like the idea of being a little softer with my goal setting… makes me feel a little less stressed!
Thank you for saying so! I’m so glad you found it useful!
I have spent a lot of time thinking about my online business…. this year it will be five years since I started with a website, then an ETSY store, then another…. now I want to actually turn a profit. So, I decided to stop ‘ playing around’ and have made some specific plans.
….I’ll see within the next 6 months if those goals and changes have been the right ones to make.
I really needed this today. Thank you so much for your words of encouragement. I feel so much better about my goals now. At the beginning of the year I felt so overwhelmed now I know I can just take it a little at a time. I know I won’t hit a big jackpot or the golden stash at the end of the rainbow at the end of the year, but I will feel so much better when that time comes and feel more accomplished. At the end of the year I want to feel like I have done something worth while and that I know will make me feel really good.
Thanks again!
If you’d like a tool for setting your goals, you can use this web application:
Gtdagenda. com
You can use it to manage your goals, projects and tasks, set next actions and contexts, use checklists, and a calendar.
Syncs with Evernote and Google Calendar, and also comes with mobile version, and Android and iPhone apps.
Thank you for this! I have so many goals in the head. Its time I put them down in writing and then take it forward. I really need to see my business doing better than what it is right now. U have so rightly put it – Stick with goals that you can control and measure!
I have found the writing down of goals is only part of the picture. I have read Richard Quis’ book Thinking Anew: Harnessing the Power of Belief, and there is more to it than just writing down your goals. helpthinkinganew.com is the book site, worth looking at if you were at all like me and not getting the motivation from just making a list! Once i got the whole picture of what I really was wanting to change in my life, things really took off. I am on an 11 month streak as I too did not start in January as I have no love for making resolutions! Good Luck all!